Jankee Parekh Mehta pens moving note on shifting priorities post motherhood: ‘I am fully and deeply immersed in this beautiful life’

Motherhood has transformed me, and I wouldn't trade this new version of myself for anything in the world. I am grateful for the lessons, the laughter, and the unconditional love that Sufi brings into my life, expressed singer Jankee Parekh Mehta who is married to actor Nakuul Mehta

Jankee Parekh Mehta on motherhood and how it has transformed her life (Source: Jankee Parekh Mehta/Instagram)

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Singer Jankee Parekh Mehta who embraced parenthood in February 2021 with actor Nakuul Mehta, opened up about how her priorities have shifted post-motherhood in a heartfelt note on Instagram.

“Today for me, the meaning of love has evolved beyond measure. It no longer resides in the romantic or grand gestures of affection, alone. Love now resides in the gentle touch of Sufi’s tiny hand, in his infectious laughter that fills the air, and in the unconditional bond we share. Love has become a symphony of giggles, a colourful artwork painted with his messy fingers and an impromptu dance party in our living room. It’s in the simple act of wiping away his tears, tickling his tiny toes, and keeping up with his endless questions and desires. Love has become the melody of lullabies I sing to him at night and the warmth of a cuddle as he passes out on my chest after a long day,” wrote Jankee, who often shares posts with her son Sufi on social media.

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She continued, “Happiness and love have found a whole new meaning in my everyday existence. As time has gone by, I have realised that my priorities have shifted. Sure, there are moments when I miss those carefree days, when I was footloose and fancy free, when I was more connected and in touch with all my friends and when Instagram posts were as frequent as the sunrise. But today, my heart has found a new rhythm and sense of purpose. I am fully and deeply immersed in this beautiful life I have created with our son, that it doesn’t occur to me to pause and capture a moment for the world to see.”

According to her, “each day brings new discoveries and adventures”. “I am honoured to be his guide, his protector, and his safe haven. So, even though my life may seem quieter on the surface, there is a symphony of emotions and experiences playing inside me. Motherhood has transformed me, and I wouldn’t trade this new version of myself for anything in the world. I am grateful for the lessons, the laughter, and the unconditional love that Sufi brings into my life,” expressed Jankee.

“This inward journey continues to shape me, moulding me into the best version of myself,” she added.

This is not the first time that Jankee has opened up about her adorable munchkin.

Previously, she also opened up about some of the challenges as Sufi is growing up.

“As Sufi is growing up, we’ve begun to realise that he needs constant engagement, connection, activities and people to play with just like any other toddler… and not to forget — always wanting to be with his ‘Mumma’. Some days have been delightful, while others have been utterly exhausting. We’ve experienced 3 to 4 meltdowns in a single day and I find myself in a constant negotiation with him, striving to be logical, patient, and compassionate in helping him understand why he can’t lift those dumbbells, devour an entire tube of toothpaste, undo an entire toilet roll into the pot, play the keyboard with his feet, or grab the masala box from the kitchen to taste the red hot mirchi powder,” she described.

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“But through all of this, I remind myself that logic often fails to work with our little ones, whose beautiful and tiny brains are growing at an astonishing rate, leaving them overwhelmed by emotions when things don’t go their way,” she continued, adding, “and just when it seems like nothing works for him, all he longs for is his Mumma’s comforting embrace where he can vent his feelings. Throughout the day, there are numerous instances when he eagerly runs towards me, planting a tender kiss or wrapping his little arms around me.”

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She also expressed, “So whilst he doesn’t understand logic, he understands what deep connection and love is, especially when we spend afternoons on the bed with him lying on my stomach and both of us just staring at the birds and the beautiful flowers outside the window. It’s at this point when all the exhaustion slowly begins to fade away, as I feel so deeply grateful, connected, blessed, and at peace to be experiencing this kind of unadulterated love in my lifetime. I also become completely aware of the fact that I am one of the two people he is fully dependent on and can trust his life with the other person being his Dadda.”

She also spoke about “Sufi’s favourite part of the day” alongside a picture that shows the trio in a selfie. “Is when Dadda returns home from work mad he eagerly waits to help put his shoes on the rack and his socks in the laundry basket. As Nakuul walks through the door, I feel a sense of relief knowing that it’s now Dadda’s turn to take over.”